Baptism What do Catholic’s Believe?

My  extended family is gathering this weekend for a blessed event in a Catholic Family the baptism or christening of my new nephew. How I wish we could be there. It is a cause of celebration in the life of a Catholic Family. Many baptisms are celebrated in the context of the Mass. This extends the celebration to the church family too.
Why do Catholics Baptize?

• Christ Himself ordered His disciples to preach the Gospel to all nations and to baptize those who accept the message of the Gospel. In His encounter with Nicodemus (John 3:1-21), Christ made it clear that baptism was necessary for salvation: "Amen, amen I say to thee, unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God." For Catholics, the sacrament is not a mere formality; it is the very mark of a Christian, because it brings us into new life in Christ.
• Baptism erases all sins (both original sin and personal sin) and their punishments. If one were to die immediately after Baptism, he would go straight to Heaven
• Baptism marks a person as belonging to God, it initiates him into the life of the church.
• Baptism infuses sanctifying grace, supernatural gifts, and virtues making us true adopted children of God.

So why do Catholics Baptize Babies?

• Simple: to remove original sin. Because of Adam and Eve’s fall from grace all humans are born with the mark of original sin. The sin of Adam and Eve. Baptism gives a baby a clean slate to start life.
• Because of the greatness of the eternal gift that is received during the Sacrament of Baptism, the Church does not desire to see anyone die without receiving this Sacrament.
• Because infant Baptism is a long standing tradition of the Church. Baptism and  has been practiced from the second century on, and it is quite possible that, from the beginning when whole "households" received baptism, infants may also have been baptized," (Acts 16:15,33; 18:8; 1 Corinthians 1:16).
• Since baptism removes both the guilt and the punishment due to Original Sin, delaying baptism until a child can understand the sacrament may put the child's salvation in danger, should he die unbaptized.

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In my Father’s Garden

This weeks in my garden is a salute to my Dad. He would have ben 73 this year. In addition to raising three kids, having a successful business and building his own house, he and and my mom landscaped a beautiful yard. He was always going off on adventures and finding new plants and trees to put in the yard. He was a fan of rocks and when each one of his kids moved into their very own homes he made sure we all got our rock. My own yard still shows signs of him. Happy Birthday Dad.

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Choosing Sunscreen for the Family.

With Memorial Day and a long weekend upon us many are making plans to go out to lakes, beaches and pools most will be packing some sunscreen along. So what is a concerned mom to do? How do you know what sunscreen is best and how do you choose one for your family?  Just in time for the long Memorial Day weekend EWG (Environmental Working Group) has come out with it’ new sunscreen recommendations for 2011. Though the jury is out on the effectiveness of sunscreens still and the question is still  should you use sunscreen? 
Check out the new recommended list from EWG. At least check to make sure your current sunscreen is NOT on the The Hall of Shame List.
Did you know that manufacturers recommend using a shot glass sized handful – 1 oz.  each time you apply sunscreen. And that you need to reapply it every time you sweat or swim? A normal sized bottle would not last my family a day at the lake or pool or beach by those recommendations. SPF rating are NOT true either. Some studies have shown that people commonly apply only 1/2 to 1/4 of the amount recommended to achieve the rated sun protection factor (SPF), and in consequence the effective SPF should be downgraded to a square or 4th root of the advertised value.
So what are you to do this weekend? Everyone wants to kick off summer and do so safely.
EWG recommends as do I recommends

• AVOIDING  products with
  • oxybenzone
    Vitamin A (retinyl palmitate)
    Added insect repellent
• Instead LOOK for products with
  • Zinc
    Titanium dioxide
    Avobenzone or Mexoryl SX
• Don’t waste your time on  sprays and powders, the nano particles can get in your lungs or SPF above 50+(the have not been proven more effective). Instead look for creams, sunscreens with UVA and UVB protection. You want a product that is water-resistant for beach, pool & exercise and preferably a SPF 30
• When in doubt cover up. Everyone should have a good swim cover. long sleeves is best. Sun protective clothing is always a good bet for those active outdoors family members. But an umbrella or a tent at the beach is better.
• Small children can go inside during the peak sun hours. With infants be sure to follow recommendations for sunscreen. 
• Be sue to test your sunscreen. Many kids are allergic to one or more components in the mix.  Sun protective clothing is always a good bet for those active outdoors family members.

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Pretty Happy Funny Real

This week was our first week of Summer Break.  To start the week off we went downtown to a couple of Art Festivals.


Pretty


T-town had some pretty clouds that day that later became storm clouds over Joplin.


































Funny
I really thought these sculptures were funny.
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Real


G and I enjoy a glass of wine from time to time. I like to use the good wine glasses.  G – well take a look and see.

Go to Like Mother Like Daughter to see more

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A Dozen Frugal and Green Birthday Party Ideas

We have a lot of spring birthdays here at the Granola Catholic House. So I have been in full swing of party planning for the last 2 months.  Two kids parties, down one to go.
So how do we keep it frugal and green at the same time? Well it is not hard. Often the two go hand in hand. Here are some tried and tested ways to make your next birthday party a green one without spending a lot of green.



Twelve Great Frugal and Green Birthday Tips 

1. Have an experience day birthday. Take the birthday child out for lunch a movie or concert. No packaging no wrapping paper.
2. Give the attendees refillable water bottles. I recently found BPA free aluminum water bottles at a dollar store. I let the kids decorate their water bottles with stickers so they could tell who’s was who’s.
3. Avoid the individual serving juice boxes and water bottles. For a recent party at the park I used one gallon water bottles and made the lemonade in the bottle
4. Have the kids make their own favors. No plastic crap to take home that will break in a day.
5. Wrap any gifts in newspaper, bandannas or cloth. The cloth and bandana can be reused several times.
6. If you must use disposable plates and cups have the kids write their names on the cups so they can reuse the same cup. (Sharpies work real well for this) Or better yet use compostable plates and utensils . Just be sure to throw in the compost pile afterwards and not regular trash. 
7. Use online invitations Evite  is a great source. Or make your own at home
8. If having an at home party vs. at the park use real plates, cups and silverware. You save money while reducing your environmental footprint
9. Cloth tables are a nicer and classier alternative to paper or plastic ones. If you can’t find one you like can buy cloth to coordinate or a bed sheet. Twin size sheets work well on most table sizes.
10. Have a smaller birthday party, If you school permits it you don’t have to invite every kid in the class. This will cut down on the waste you produce
11. Bake your own cake at home, you can really customize the cake, from ingredients to frosting to decorations.
12. Don’t fuss over theme parties, most kids are just happy to have a cake, play a couple of games and open presents.  (Summer Parties are made easy with the addition of water- Pumpkin lucks out with a pool party most years- easy entertaining for me too.)

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What to know before you go to the farmer’s market.

In my family the going to the farmers market is an adventure. But what do you need to know before you go?


What to know before you

• Be sure to take cash small bills work best. Most vendors don’t take credit or debit cards. Although they will take SNAP benefits at our local markets.
• Bring your own bags, some vendors have bags but don’t count on it. It is better to have a big bag to put all of your purchases in.
• Wear comfortable shoes. Weekend markets can be quite large and entail a bit of walking
• People will bring their dogs so don’t be surprised. Remember you are outside
• It is okay to ask for samples, in fact many vendors are trying to give you one.
• Have an idea of what you want to buy but keep an open mind. Today we bought garlic scrapes. Peanut was eating them raw while walking through the market. I put them into my homemade tomato  sauce.
• It is okay to ask vendors how they like to cook the vegetables, if you have never bought that particular vegetable it is a good idea to ask for ideas.
• Have an idea of what you want to buy, but be open to surprises. Like the strawberries that were there today.
• Have a sense of adventure. Think about the farmer’s market through the eyes of your child. My kids think it is about as fun as any festival. Usually it is. Saturday markets may have musicians, the local news, freebies for kids and samples.
• Speaking of kids – let your kids help pick out some of the purchases. This is a great time to teach them about quality, vegetables, or just get some insight into what they may be interested in eating.

Even for early in the season there was still plenty to get.
I was so happy to find early garlic today. And Pumpkin asked me to get Rainbow Chard. He wants to try it raw. The snow peas will probably be eaten raw straight from the fridge. And I can’t wait to cook up our grass fed ground beef. Such a good price too. $3.00/lb.  You will have to come back to see what I made with all these goodies.

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Wordless Wednesday

I gave the camera to  Pi  took off with my camera this past Sunday. We were downtown at the Cathedral for  a confirmation mass. So we took advantage of that and went to a couple downtown arts festivals. Stormy Skies were brewing,. They  make great pictures, so does Art Deco Architecture. Put the two together = magic. Unfortunately.  these storms brought great destruction. While we were able to enjoy the beauty of these storm building storm clouds others were witness to the destruction.  By the time we got home and turned on the news to check the weather we found out that tornadoes were already bouncing around the area. Within a couple of hours an F5 (the strongest type with winds in excess of 216 - 318 mph) For a girl from the coast who is used to Hurricanes this wind speed is inconceivable.
If you are interested in donating or helping can go here  to help those affected Catholic Relief Services and Joplin Mo Tornado Recovery American Red Cross

Linking up at A Southern Day Dreamer

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